Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Powerful Communication / Personal Matters 2

First of all welcome, Mehul, to the still small band of followers of my blog; I hope you enjoy being here and I hope that you find my posts interesting, and perhaps even stimulating. I'd welcome your as well as all followers comments, be they positive or negative.
It's now just about a week when I wrote my last post. After I had been to the hospital to get the test results evaluated, I was attacked by some kind of virus. The virus won and I felt rather ill for a few days. Now I am getting better, but I had passed on the virus to my wife who is now feeling quite ill.
Well, the test results were partly disappointing for me and to another part encouraging. Of course I didn't get what I hoped for, which had been quite unrealistic. But I didn't get what I was certain to get either. Bad news is that the count for the tumor markers is up by about  50%. Another bad news is that I have to undergo another biopsy, and I really don't look forward to it. The reason for this second biopsy is that the test result was inconclusive in some way, which I see as good news. It means that I have an ever so tiny chance to still win. Therefore my battle continues; I  increase my work using the power of my thoughts and the power of my mind as well as powerful communcation. I still intend to win.

This leads me nicely to Powerful Communication. In the last paragraph I gave you a few bad news and a few good ones. If I counted correctly there are 6 bad and 8 good news. When reading the message what kind of feeling do you have; is the message negative or positive? I use the word feeling intentionally. I am not saying that you should weigh the pros and cons in this message using logic and reason. If you did you would have to say that this message is rather bad. By using your feelings without using your cognitive abilities you would say that the message is overwhelmingly positive. What makes me assume this?

Firstly, I have placed the bad news to the beginning of the message and the good news to the end. The end, the last words, have the greatest impact.
Secondly, I used italics for the bad news, and bold for the good news. Bold overpowers italics. In verbal communication it means that I over-emphasize the good news and use appropriate tonality, body language and facial expression. The bad news I deliver without any emphasis.
Thirdly, I put emphasis on power of thought, mind and communication. But some cynics using their logic might say that this is exactly what I used before and it didn't help then either.
That's the difference between using intellect and using feelings.

Luckily, however, we respond to our feelings rather than to our intellect. We hear what we want to hear, we see what we want to see, we feel what we want to feel.
Knowing this puts us in a most powerful position. We can now use our intellect to use the feelings that we want to have, which are most useful for us, empower us and put us in a resourceful state of mind.

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Monday, August 23, 2010

Powerful Communcation / Personal Matters

Before I expand on Powerful Communcation I will put it in context with my own current challenge.
Just for those of you who are only recent followers of my blog: I was diagnosed with  neoplasm that had invaded my system. You can read more about it in older posts. Just to make it easier for you,  neoplasm means cancer. . This coming Wednesday, 25th August, I will see the oncologist to learn what my latest test results reveal. When I last saw him he advised to do nothing but wait and that on the 25th we will see what course of action should be taken (chemo or radiotherapy, operation). However I  resolved to deal with this challenge using diet, natural supplements and the powers of my mind and thoughts and not go the invasive medical route.
I am a great advocate of psychoneuroimmunology (PNI), previously known as behavioral medicine, that explores the mind - body connection and how we can use the knowledge of it to help our body to heal, to maintain or to improve health. One of the many examples that show the efficacy of PNI is our immune system, which is highly influenced by our feelings. When we experience stress, ill feelings of any kind or negativity, our immune system experiences a low and is open to be attacked by foreign invaders (i.e. viruses)When we are free of stress, are positive and are feeling good about ourselves our immune system expereieces a boost. I don't want to go into more detail. I have dedicated a whole chapter of Happiness Discovered to PNI.
I use the right words to create the right feelings that enable me to face up to the challenge I have on my hands. Therefore I talk about neoplasm rather than cancer. If I told someone I had cancer they would be shocked. If I told them I have a neoplasm most of them wouldn't know what it is. Then I'd explain in words that are not shocking what a neoplasm is. If I shock people, they would project their shock to me and my system will be affeted by it. When people ask me about my cancer I always reject ownership of it. It's not mine; on the contrary I'll gladly be rid of it. When I use mind work to deal with this challenge - which I regularly do 3 times a day in a very focused way - I do not shy away from a negative outcome, I go toward a positive one. I.e. I am not going to succumb to my illness is a terrible formulation that makes me feel ill just thinking about it; I deal with this challenge accurately and positively; I am winning is so much better.
I said so before, I am a very happy person. My wife and I have great fun together, there is lots of laughter in our home and lots of love. We both are happy and we both know that I am winning.
The day after tomorrow I'll see the oncologist and I am really looking forward to it. I am looking forward to hear by how much my condition has improved.
I'll let you know.
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Sunday, August 22, 2010

Powerful Communication / Words 2

When choosing the right words or word assemblages you obviously want to choose those that fit best what you want to gain. For example if you want to feel wonderful it's not good enough to tell yourself that you feel pretty good. Be as precise as you possibly can be.
Moving away from something negative demotivates, moving toward a positive motivates. Telling yourself that you don't want to fall ill is not the same as telling yourself that you stay healthy. The one produces a different energy in you then the other.
You may have realized that I phrased the above in the present time, even though you may not expect some change to happen right now. I did this on purpose. What good does it do when you say I will be feeling wonderful or I will stay healthy? It puts what you want to gain somewhere into the future. You can repeat what you say ten times a day for every following day and nothing will change, because you always put it into the future.
There is much more about it in Happiness Discovered.
Until soon.
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Friday, August 20, 2010

Powerful Communication / Words

People who know me also know that I am not a religious person; far from it; indeed I am agnostic. However, John 1:1 "In the beginning was the word" is stuck in my mind forever. Why and how I found it is a long story and really irrelevant. But when I first read it - many years ago - I said to myself that this cannot be right. Surely there has to be thought first in order to formulate a word. But how is the thought produced? How can we think if we cannot use words? We know that most of the time we think in images, but not always. Sometimes verbal thinking is necessary. In this case words produce the thoughts, or do they?  I was wrecking my brain over this chicken or egg question and didn't find the answer. There is only one quite simple part-answer to it: words produce thought, and thought produces words; a very typical bidirectional effect. Whereby of course the original question what came first remains unanswered.
Suffice to say that for our purpose - to change our interpretation of an experience - we use words to change our thought processes. It follows that by changing the interpretation we change also our feeling towards the experience. This works all the time and without exception, provided you practice doing it.
Let us take my previous example of the secretary and the boss, and I wrote that she should say STOP! THINK! EVALUATE! which undoubtedly are words. The first one made her stop, and the other ones made her think and evaluate in all likelihood also verbally. Then she would say to herself what to do in order to get the best possible result from this situation.
She could also enhance the feelings she wants to create by using words such as whatever he says, I am in control; or he is a funny man and makes me laugh; or whatever she needs to say to change the original feeling of perhaps awkwardness to something more useful for her.
You find more examples for using words and how to use them to change feelings in Happiness Discovered.
Until soon.
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Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Powerful Communication 2

What makes me (and Carl Jung) think that control over our feelings and emotions is desirable? Does control not mean suppression? Does it mean that we become unemotional and cold?
I said in a previous blog that our actions and reactions are governed by our feelings. We don't do what we need to do, but what we want to do. Acting according to our feelings is sometimes not the wisest thing to do. Reacting according to our feelings can be sometimes stupid or even self-destructive. Think of my example in a previous post of the sectretary and her boss. When it comes to serious decisions,actions and reactions I always advize to say to yourself STOP! STEP BACK! EVALUATE! and then do just that. Use your cognitive skills and think quickly if what you are about to do is the best thing for you to do. It does not need to take a long period of time. In most cases a second or two are good enough. Good enough to at least delay what you want to do for a further few seconds. Evaluate and think what course of action would be a better one. And then make your decision based on your intellect, your logic and your reason.
Control does not mean suppression, it means to exchange useless feelings that hinder you against useful feelings that put you in a resourceful state of mind, that encourage and empower you. The operative word is exchange.
When we exchange negative feelings for positive ones, we display the good ones emotionally. And we really feel these emotions, they are perfectly natural even though we have created them. But we create our feelings anyway. Remember, it is not events and experiences that create our feelings, but our interpretation of the events and experiences. We can at will make up our interpretations. We all do it anyway. But most of us are unaware of  the fact that we do it. Now we can take complete control over this power that we quite naturally possess.
How do we go about it? By using words.
But I will talk about this next time.

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Monday, August 16, 2010

Powerful Communication

I am not turning away from Change the Way You Think with this post. Communication is an essential part of change work. With this I mean the choice of words, how we string them together - whereby I prefer maximum power over correct grammar - our tone of voice, our facial expression and our body language in general. I also mean both external communication - the way we communicate with others - and internal communication - our internal dialogue, the way we communicate with ourselves.  Much of the time we think in images and not with words. But often it is necessary to think verbally, in particular in the decision making process. Whether we think in images or in words we want to choose the "right" images and the "right" words together with the appropriate body language and tonality.

If we get it wrong in our internal communication our influence over our thought processes is weak.
If we get it wrong in our external communication, we create confusion in our listeners or conversation partners; we come across as being ambiguous, not persuasive and not convincing.

If we get it right in our internal communication we have made a gigantic step toward control over our feelings and emotions. I do not say that we want to suppress our feelings and emotions, but exchange useless feelings against feelings that empower us, are meaningful and put us in a resourceful state of mind.
Carl Jung (1875-1961): "Man likes to believe he is master of his soul, but without mastery over feelings and emotions we are still wandering in  a wilderness in which only logical facts contain meaning."
If we get it right in our external communication we come across as being strong and powerful; we are convincing and can persuade people easily and elegantly.
Next time more about it.

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Saturday, August 14, 2010

Change the Way You Think 7


In my 5th post to this theme I said that words, events and experiences are absolutely meaningless until we as individuals put some kind of meaning to it. What meaning we give it depends on our mindset (6th post to this theme). If you want to change you need to first use your "meaning making" ability. This is one way and probably the easiest one to begin to change your mindset. Provided that you practice to change meanings of whatever happens in your life, even if it is not necessary to do so and then you practice, practice and practice some more.
How do you do it? If you are a woman you can take my example from my 5th post. Imagine that you are in the secretary's position. How would you react? Play the scenario in your mind; see it like a movie from the beginning when the boss said what he said and how he said it; hear it in your mind; observe how you feel. Now react according to your feelings, whatever they are. If you feel flattered, that's fine; indulge in it. If you feel insulted, that's fine too; imagine now what you are going to do to him - remember, it's just a movie and you can let your fantasy run wild. Now imagine what results both your actions could have had. For example if you felt flattered, from there on you might see your boss as a man who has a sexual interest in you. How would this affect you? Workwise and in your private life? On the other hand (you argue with yourself) he might have meant it differently and is not sexually interested in you. This would be quite confusing, wouldn't it? If you felt insulted and you reacted with violence, what could happen? How would it affect you? Consider - as with the previous example - that he may have meant his words differently. That would be quite embarrassing to say the least, wouldn't it?
In order not to be confused and not to change the dynamics of your work environment, you decide now that you are going to change the meaning of this experience. You play the same scenario in the movie theater of your mind, but knowing that your reactions - determined by your feelings - will have quite some impact on your life, you decide that a different reaction would be a wiser choice. You could think that you are not attracted to him, that your peace of mind is very important for you, that you actually enjoy working in this company, or whatever else you can think of to diminish or do away with your original reaction. You could say to yourself and also to him yeah, yeah, yeah I've heard that one before or words to this effect and change the focus of your thoughts from the compliment - if inded it was meant to be a compliment - to something unrelated, something completely different.

For a man something else will work in the same way.
Or you could go into the past and remember an example of a painful or frustrating experience and create your movie of it. Actually this works for both sexes. See, hear and feel what happened and your reaction to it. What would have happened, if you had reacted differently? Pick a few scenarios and experience your emotional reactions to them. Choose the one that is the most useful one for you. This is how you should have reacted in the first place. See it as a learning experience and value it highly, because you have now created a model that can serve you forever. Acknowledge this as a fact and be proud of it.

You see, Sigmund Freud was wrong: it is NEVER the event or the experience that creates your feelings, but your own individual interpretation of it. As you change your interpretation, you change your feelings.

You can read much more about it in Happiness Discovered.
Until next time.

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Friday, August 13, 2010

Change the Way You Think 6

The very first step toward change is that you really want to change. If you want circumstances to change, people  to change, or whatever else to change, you'll fail if you don't change your mindset first. Because you are not in control over other people or over circumstances, but only in control over your thoughts. And in order to change your mindset you need to change the way you think.
If you don't, you cannot expect any significant changes in your life.
If you don't, your past will always be influencing your present and subsequently your future.
If you don't, you will always be hindered by your own self-limiting beliefs.
If you don't, you will continue to worry about your present and your future.
And most importantly:
If you don't, you will never be master over your feelings and emotions.

Is it easy to change? No, of course not; but it is doable.
It's not easy because we are programmed and conditioned to behave in certain ways. And this has served us well. After all, we are still alive! We may not have lived up to our potential, we may not be as happy as we want to be; but we are alive. That's something!
Who knows what's going to happen if we change the way we think, and with it our behavior? We might do things that we had never attempted to do before, and they could be dangerous. How would people close to us react to our change? What would the neighbors think?
If you develop your thought processes along these lines STOP! If you don't want to stop, that's fine too, but then you might as well give up thinking of change. Stay with the majority and indulge in apathy and lethargy; you will never change, but that's ok too.

But if you did put a STOP to the thought process that I have outlined, change quickly to a different thought process. Imagine what could be if you really changed to that person that you want to be? See yourself having achieved what you really wanted to achieve, whether it is in your business or in your private life. You could see yourself as the superbly confident and strong person that you deserve to be; being successful in all walks of life. Imagine what this would do to your self-esteem? Imagine what kind of impact it would have on those close to you. Imagine being on top of the world. Imagine being admired by many and envied by others. See all this imagery in the most glorious and vibrant colors; hear your favorite music playing and hear laughter; smell the scent of the flowers that surround you; and notice how this feels. Do you feel happy? Boost this feeling if you can and indulge in it.
So what if this was just a dream and not reality yet. Dreams can become visions, and visions can become reality. It is in your hands.
Next time more about it.


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Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Change the Way You Think 5

A friend of mine is a photographer and she loves taking photographs that I felt were useless and at best self-indulging. For example she would see a stack of firewood, or some pebbles on the ground and she would photograph them. When I looked at that firewood or those pebbles I didn't see anything worth a second glance. Just firewood ready to be burned; and the pebbles I wouldn't have noticed at all. But then she pointed out a few things to me and then I learned to see this peculiar formation of this handful of pebbles, and I felt it was interesting and that there was some kind of beauty in this formation. And there was a certain order in the stack of firewood, a certain "rythm" if you will, which I felt was quite beautiful too.
My point is that I changed my feelings only because I looked at these pebbles and that firewood differently; somebody had told me how to see them to become aware of their beauty. I had changed the meaning of these objects from being pointless to something very meaningful.
Let's take a different example. The boss says to his (female) secretary that she is a highly intelligent and very beautiful woman. What kind of meaning does the secretary give to these words?  She could think oh what I nice thing to say, or is this in lieu of a salary increase?  or yeah, yeah, I heard that one before, or this is sexual harrassment. Whatever she thinks depends on her very own interpretation of the words. She does not really know what her boss meant. She is presented with data - words - and now she needs to interpret them.
You see, words are totally meaningless and so are events and experiences. Nothing has any meaning until you give meaning to it. What kind of meaning you give it depends on your mindset. And your mindset depends on your upbringing: what your parents told you, what your teachers taught you, which could have been in conflict with what your parents had told you; and what everyone else told or taught you who had any form of influence over you. Also past experiences and events and how they affected you form part of your mindset. And this hotchpotch of different influences, often conflicting, sometimes positive and sometimes negative, over time became your mindset. In other words you learned your mindset.
The thing about mindset is that it will forever influence your thinking, your biases,  your prejudices, your likes and dislikes, your actions and reactions, your values, your beliefs, your priorities, in short your life.
Is this good or bad? Well, this depends on the individual. Some people are perfectly happy how their life is unfolding; perhaps they don't know any better, or perhaps there isn't any better. Other people are unhappy with their circumstances and they would give anything to change something or everything. But they cannot change anything until they have changed their mindset.
We have acquired our mindset. There may have been some little bit in it that we inherited from our parents, but the greatest portion by far comes from copying and learning.
But if our mindset is not given to us by nature - we are not born with it - then surely we can re-learn and create one that is superior to the one we had before.
Next time more about it.

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Monday, August 9, 2010

Personal Matters

In one of my first blogs I have told you that a neoplasm had invaded one of my organs, which to me is a far better way of saying I have cancer, or even worse my cancer has returned. I have also told you that I am a very happy person; not because of this neoplasm - this would be mad - but in spite of it. I have done everything in my power to combat this illness, and I spoke about it in detail in some of last month's posts to this blog. More than any time before I have used the power of my thoughts, which of course is one reason why I am a very happy person. I have also used this power to help overcome my challenge.
Tomorrow I will have some blood test, and in about two weeks time I am going to see the oncologist who will tell me by how much my condition has improved. Those of you who have followed this blog from the beginning know that my immediate target was to improve my condition to such a degree that medical invasive intervention is not necessary. Long term I want to reduce the neoplasm to nothingness.
I keep you informed.

Change the Way You Think 4

Typically our actions are governed by our feelings and not by our ability to use logic and reason. In other words we do what we want to do and not what we need to do. You will agree with me when you think of all your impulse buys, most of your spur-of-the-moment actions and reactions; when you think of the arguments that you have had and afterwards you wished you had handled them better and with more thought. How often did you regret those impulse buys and the spur-of-the-moment decisions?
STOP! THINK! That's the answer. Stop and step back from the decision and think. Think of the outcome that you want to achieve and ask yourself if the decision that you almost made is the right one. Think of its implications, how it will affect you and those close to you. Most importantly think if what you want to do fulfils your needs too. If your wants are not the same as your needs decide in favor of your needs. If this makes you feel bad, disappointed, sad or frustrated, change the feeling.
Actually this is one of the most important steps in any form of change work: change your feelings. Once you can do it, everything else becomes much easier and easier and easier still. As Carl Jung said:
"Man likes to believe he is the master of his soul, but without mastery over emotions and feelings, we are still wandering in a wilderness in which only logical facts contain meaning."
More about it next time.

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Saturday, August 7, 2010

Change the Way You Think 3

sunsings1 commented on my last post that thoughts are the first step to self-realization. I have no argument with this. However, if I want to engage in a hair splitting exercise I could say that self-realization may or may not have something to do with the subject matter. It depends on one's interpretation of the word self-realization and also on the context. We could say that we need to first realize that something needs to be changed, or that we want to change something. With this interpretation of the word and in this context sunsings1 is absolutely right and I am most grateful for this comment.
Moving on. I wrote that we have total control over our thoughts and that this gives us enormous power. After all thoughts determine the actions that we take, and the actions that we take lead to the outcome of our actions. Simple, isn't it? Let us put this in the context of decision making. This is a daily occurence for most of us in our private life, certainly in our business or work life, and also in sport. If we take action with negative and pessimistic thoughts in our mind then there is an enormous likelihood that we will get a negative outcome. If we take the same action with positive and optimistic thoughts in our mind then we have a much greater chance to experience a positive outcome.
But what if we have a choice of two actions and both give us a 50:50 chance of success. How do we choose which one to take, and how can we avoid being full of doubt that this is the right choice?
Let us look at this next time.


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Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Change the Way You Think 2

We can influence much in our life; people and to some degree also events. But what can we control? Nothing really other than our thoughts. Think about it. You see, even though I told you to think about it, you didn't really need to do what I told you. You could have thought about the weather instead, or about your work schedule, a movie that you saw or want to see. But you chose to think about what I told you. It was your choice and yours alone.
By the same token you can introduce pictures in your mind and not only thoughts. These pictures can be anything you like; in your mind you can see a mile high tree, or elephants with  pink ribbons around their necks. You can see yourself as being the emperor of China and you can think about how you would conduct your reign. And it does not matter one iota that this position no longer exists and hasn't existed for quite some time. You can think and you can see whatever you wish.
Of course this is something you knew anyway; I didn't give away any secrets by telling you. But do you realize how important it is? Do you know what you can do with it?
It is the foundation to my maxim Change the Way You Think and Change Your Life.

Let's explore this next time.